The House We Built
The PodcastThe
House
We Built
Remi & Kendra Sobomehin
The Podcast

Two parents.
Eleven pillars.
One house.

One house we're trying to build on purpose. A new episode every other Sunday.

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01Episode

Why we started this.

Where the podcast came from, what we hope it becomes, and why we are recording on Sunday nights in the kitchen.

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All Episodes

The first ten.

02Episode

The 11 pillars, explained.

A walkthrough of every pillar, why this list and not another, and the two years of Sunday nights it took to land here.

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03Episode

The Sunday meeting that changed our marriage.

The rhythm we stumbled into and why it matters more than any book we have read on partnership.

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04Episode

Kendra's PhD in Education, and what it actually taught us.

What Stanford taught Kendra about learning, and what a decade of raising kids has taught her the program never covered.

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05Episode

Raising boys in a world that gets them wrong.

What we are trying to hand our sons, and what we are trying to refuse on their behalf.

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06Episode

Finance Friday: talking about money without fighting.

The small weekly ritual that took money fights off the table in our marriage.

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07Episode

The mental load, honestly.

A frank conversation about who was carrying what, and how we stopped pretending it was even.

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08Episode

When Sadé was born: the reset.

The third child who made our old system fall apart, and what we rebuilt from the pieces.

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09Episode

What we'd tell our younger selves.

Letters to the versions of us that got married at twenty-four and had no idea what was coming.

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10Episode

The house we'll leave them.

What we hope our three kids inherit, and what we hope they are free to throw away.

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On the Horizon

Episodes coming Summer 2026.

Get the Sunday letter and we'll let you know the moment the first one lands.